P.S. Younger Self

Stop Attracting the Wrong People: NLP & Identity Work Explained

Chris Oh Episode 119

What if your identity is the reason you keep attracting the wrong people? In this episode, Master NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Practitioner Damon Cart reveals how your unconscious self-concept shapes your relationships — and how to reprogram it for deeper connection, lasting transformation, and authentic self-belief.

Trained and mentored by NLP pioneer Steve Andreas, Damon now teaches the powerful Self-Concept Model to clients and coaches around the world. He shares how he personally overcame depression — once in just one session using Neuro-Linguistic Programming — and why traditional therapy often struggles to reach the unconscious structures where real change happens.

Listeners will also learn:

  • Why the key to mastering Neuro-Linguistic Programming is applying it on yourself first — not just others
  • The difference between self-worth and self-esteem from NLP perspective
  • Why self worth is considered a myth  — and how letting go of it unlocks real confidence
  • How to uncover and rewire limiting beliefs that shape your identity and relationships
  • A live coaching demo exploring how your values reveal what’s truly driving you

Whether you're stuck in recurring relationship patterns or ready to transform how you see yourself, this episode offers a practical and deeply empowering path forward through Neuro-Linguistic Programming and identity work.

Learn more about P.S. Younger Self here.
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